Let me say i was a happy and all of a sudden one day my parents say i would be getting married real soon i would be so angry at them and everyone in on it, it didn't matter who but i would pay for each of their getting beat up by the soldiers then pay them handsomely then go to the temple and ask for my gods forgiveness then run away from my family and go to another land and wait 'till the time is right to come back and meet my family again and ask for their forgiveness and marry whoever I was bound to marry